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tina_black) wrote2009-11-23 10:28 pm
tina_black) wrote2009-11-23 10:28 pm
Enough Day
I am back at my own townhouse.
Today would have been Pati's birthday, a fit day to move out of John's house. I still have a few things there and some I promised to remove, but the bulk of my stuff is back where it came from.
The person who was supposed to move it just failed to show, so I called a local mover and threw myself on his mercy. His son and a son's buddy came and rescued me, moving my stuff in time for me to do dinner with K and D.
Today I found out that if you marry someone and he gets run over by a bus any earlier than 9 months into the marriage, you are SOL for survivor or spouse benefits. That is right -- the foiling of predatory widows is sacred to the Social Security mission...that an denying disability on the first round are evidently prime principles.
Tomorrow is work. I suppose I will survive, even though I am deeply tired.
Today would have been Pati's birthday, a fit day to move out of John's house. I still have a few things there and some I promised to remove, but the bulk of my stuff is back where it came from.
The person who was supposed to move it just failed to show, so I called a local mover and threw myself on his mercy. His son and a son's buddy came and rescued me, moving my stuff in time for me to do dinner with K and D.
Today I found out that if you marry someone and he gets run over by a bus any earlier than 9 months into the marriage, you are SOL for survivor or spouse benefits. That is right -- the foiling of predatory widows is sacred to the Social Security mission...that an denying disability on the first round are evidently prime principles.
Tomorrow is work. I suppose I will survive, even though I am deeply tired.